Man's search for meaning
- don't aim at success - the more you aim at it and make it a target, the more you are going to miss it. For success, like happiness, cannot be pursued; it must ensue, and it only does so as the unintended side-effect of one's personal dedication to cause greater than oneself or as the by-product of one's surrender to a person other than oneself.
- "Man is defined as a being who can get used to anything" - Dostoevsky
- "There are things that must cause you to lose your reason or you have none to lose" - lessens
- Set me like a seal upon thy heart, love is as strong as death
- No man should judge unless he asks himself in absolute honesty whether in a similar situation he might not have done the same
- "There is only one thing that I dread - not to be worthy of my sufferings" - Dostoevsky
- "Life is like being at the dentist. You always think that the worst is still to come, and yet it is over already" - Bismarck
- "He who has a why to live for can bear with almost any how" - Nietzsche
- ...It does not really matter what we expected from life, but rather what life expected from us...
- When the impossibility of replacing a person is realized, it allows the responsibility which a man has for his existence and its continuance to appear in all its magnitude
- Live as if you were living already for the second time and as if you had acted the first time as wrongly as you are about to act now!
- Every thing is just as difficult to realize as it is rare to find
Logotherapy gems
- Everything can be taken from a man, but the last of the human freedoms; the freedom to choose one’s attitude in any a given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way
- By virtue of this capacity man is capable of detaching himself not only from a situation, but also from himself. He is capable of choosing his attitude toward himself
- Human freedom is finite freedom. Man is not free from conditions. But he is free to take a stand in regard to them. The conditions do not completely condition him
- Only to the extent to which man fulfills a meaning out there in the world, does he fulfill himself
- If you take human beings as they are, you make them worse. If you take them as they can be, you help them to become what they are capable of becoming
- 'We needed to stop asking ourselves about the meaning of life, and instead to think of ourselves as those who were being questioned by life-daily and hourly. . . . Therefore, it was necessary for us to face up to the full amount of suffering, trying to keep moments of weakness and furtive tears to a minimum. But there was no need to be ashamed of tears, for tears bore witness that a man had the greatest of courage, the courage to suffer' - Quoted from Frankl's book
Of Economics and Success...